So you have been working really hard to save your relationship and finally got to the point where you are going on your first date after breaking up. What should you do to make sure you win him back? Here's something I saw on the news the other day that can give us some insights.
A beautiful day was ending and a young couple was enjoying a fantastic sunset at a scenic roadside vista. Then out of nowhere, a man with a gun robbed them and drove off with their car. The area had no cell reception, so the couple had to hike a mile down the road in the dark to get enough of a signal to call for help. To top things off, the couple was on their first date.
Most of us would think that this must have been the worst date ever for both of them, but we would be wrong. When they were asked if they would go on a second date together, both said they couldn't wait to go on their next date. So why would this couple want to go out again after going through such a traumatic experience on their first date?
Well, the simple answer is that the common bond that is formed by sharing an emotionally charged event is hard to break and brings people closer together. It is the same reason that soldiers who serve together in a combat zone become so close after just a short period of time. So how can we use this principle when planning the first few dates with your ex boyfriend?
Since emotionally charged experiences create strong bonds in a relationship, you should make sure that your first few dates are packed with shared excitement and adventure. Spending a day at an amusement park would be an excellent choice for many couples. Just imagine all the adrenaline packed roller coasters and other exhilarating rides you can use to bond with your boyfriend.
If both of you are die-hard thrill seekers, you can step it up a notch and go for things like skydiving or bungee jumping. Extreme activities like these are sure to create memories that will last a lifetime.
If roller coasters and skydiving are too much for you or your boyfriend, that's ok. Any activity that both of you will find exciting or adventurous will be perfect. For some couples, an afternoon out learning to rollerblade or exploring a cave would be sufficient to do the trick. If you can make the activity fun, exciting, and something both of you can share, the results will be spectacular.
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